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<channel><title><![CDATA[Author C.J. Graves - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.cjgraves.net/blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 30 Jan 2024 23:57:57 -0800</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[New review for CROSSED!]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/new-review-for-crossed]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/new-review-for-crossed#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2012 15:09:58 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/new-review-for-crossed</guid><description><![CDATA[ Check out Elizabeth's review of Crossed on her blog, Silver's Reviews.&nbsp; It's a good one.&nbsp;   [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='z-index:10;position:relative;float:left;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="http://www.cjgraves.net/uploads/1/3/9/8/13983922/505838500.jpg" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;"></div></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><font color="#ff6666" size="4"><br /><span></span><br /><span></span><font color="#cccccc">Check out Elizabeth's review of Crossed on her blog, <a href="http://silversolara.blogspot.com/2012/11/crossed-by-c-j-graves.html" target="_blank">Silver's Reviews</a>.&nbsp; It's a good one.&nbsp; </font></font></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Antichrist 16 Giveaway!]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/antichrist-16-giveaway]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/antichrist-16-giveaway#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 23 Oct 2012 17:08:04 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/antichrist-16-giveaway</guid><description><![CDATA[ Wednesday 10/24 to Friday 10/26, I'll be giving away downloads of my YA paranormal novel, Antichrist 16: The Becoming.&nbsp; Nathan wants to be a normal teenager but discovers he's the Antichrist.&nbsp; Yikehttp://www.amazon.com/Antichrist-16-Becoming-Trilogy-ebook/dp/B0083AB0EO/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1351011940&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=antichrist+16  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='z-index:10;position:relative;float:left;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="http://www.cjgraves.net/uploads/1/3/9/8/13983922/4631718.jpg?161" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;"></div></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;display:block;">Wednesday 10/24 to Friday 10/26, I'll be giving away downloads of my YA paranormal novel, Antichrist 16: The Becoming.&nbsp; <br><span></span><br><span></span>Nathan wants to be a normal teenager but discovers he's the Antichrist.&nbsp; Yike<br><span></span><br><span><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Antichrist-16-Becoming-Trilogy-ebook/dp/B0083AB0EO/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1351011940&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=antichrist+16">http://www.amazon.com/Antichrist-16-Becoming-Trilogy-ebook/dp/B0083AB0EO/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1351011940&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=antichrist+16</a><br><span></span></span></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[FREE GIVEAWAY TODAY AND TOMORROW!]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/free-giveaway-today-and-tomorrow]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/free-giveaway-today-and-tomorrow#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 18 Oct 2012 16:32:46 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/free-giveaway-today-and-tomorrow</guid><description><![CDATA[ BeltedLove, terror, cagefighting, and triumph.&nbsp; A poignant tale of personal transformation.Go to http://www.amazon.com/Belted-book/dp/B007TBYYX2/ref=pd_sim_sbs_kstore_2  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='z-index:10;position:relative;float:left;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="http://www.cjgraves.net/uploads/1/3/9/8/13983922/4721898.jpg?151" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;"></div></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;">Belted<br /><span></span><br />Love, terror, cagefighting, and triumph.&nbsp; A poignant tale of personal transformation.<br /><span></span><br />Go to <br /><span></span><a title="" href="http://www.amazon.com/Belted-book/dp/B007TBYYX2/ref=pd_sim_sbs_kstore_2">http://www.amazon.com/Belted-book/dp/B007TBYYX2/ref=pd_sim_sbs_kstore_2</a><br /><span></span></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Long and Short of Being Yourself.]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/the-long-and-short-of-being-yourself]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/the-long-and-short-of-being-yourself#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2012 16:42:22 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/the-long-and-short-of-being-yourself</guid><description><![CDATA[ As shocking as it sounds, people often say to me, &ldquo;You look short.&rdquo;&nbsp; Well, I am short.No sense denying it.&nbsp; I won&rsquo;t be trying out for&nbsp;the NBA anytime soon.&nbsp; But what of it?&nbsp; I&rsquo;ve been short my whole life, so you&nbsp;know, I&rsquo;m kind of used to it.&nbsp; I&rsquo;ve accepted it.Accepting the sort of&nbsp;writer you are can be more difficult.&nbsp; Do you ever read a book and think, &ldquo;Man,&nbsp;I wish I could write that funny/poetic/fastac [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='z-index:10;position:relative;float:left;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="http://www.cjgraves.net/uploads/1/3/9/8/13983922/130519667.jpg" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;"></div></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;display:block;">As shocking as it sounds, people often say to me, &ldquo;You look short.&rdquo;&nbsp; <br /><br />Well, I am short.<br /><br />No sense denying it.&nbsp; I won&rsquo;t be trying out for&nbsp;the NBA anytime soon.&nbsp; But what of it?&nbsp; I&rsquo;ve been short my whole life, so you&nbsp;know, I&rsquo;m kind of used to it.&nbsp; I&rsquo;ve accepted it.<br /><br />Accepting the sort of&nbsp;writer you are can be more difficult.&nbsp; Do you ever read a book and think, &ldquo;Man,&nbsp;I wish I could write that funny/poetic/fastaced/romantic/ etc.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp; Maybe you&nbsp;give it a shot, starting out with some, &ldquo;I CAN DO ANYTHING!&rdquo; superhero&nbsp;enthusiasm that morphs into all-too-human muttering, &ldquo;This crap&rsquo;s hard,&rdquo; until&nbsp;finally you&rsquo;re looking for a solid object to bang your head against as you cry,&nbsp;&ldquo;Loser, loser, loser, loser!&rdquo;<br /><br />But before you resign your writing to the&nbsp;recycling bin, remember each of you is a unique person with something to say.&nbsp;&nbsp;And no one can say that thing quite the same way you do.&nbsp; Being your best means&nbsp;being yourself.&nbsp; Embracing that allows your style to come through your writing.&nbsp; <br /><br />I don&rsquo;t mean to say it&rsquo;s never good to branch out--try something new.&nbsp; <br /> Just that most people who succeed play to their strengths.&nbsp; If you&rsquo;re funny, be <br /> funny.&nbsp; If you&rsquo;re romantic, be romantic.&nbsp; Find your strengths and shine those <br /> puppies until they sparkle like Edward Cullen on a Caribbean cruise.&nbsp; Once you <br /> know your strengths, use them, and then you can become &ldquo;known&rdquo; for&nbsp;them.<br /><br />And maybe, just maybe, one day you&rsquo;ll wake to find you&rsquo;re the&nbsp;number one, international bestselling, Pulitzer prize winning, millionaire,&nbsp;everyone-wants-to-be -me- author of the most awesome gorilla zombie love story&nbsp;of all time.<br /><br />Okay, maybe that&rsquo;s overly dramatic.&nbsp; But hey--that&rsquo;s just&nbsp;the kind of writer I am.</div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The thrill of the new review.]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/the-thrill-of-the-new-review]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/the-thrill-of-the-new-review#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2012 15:54:39 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/the-thrill-of-the-new-review</guid><description><![CDATA[ I thought about naming this--"I'd&nbsp;give my first born child for a blog review!"&nbsp; But of course, I don't have&nbsp;children and don't plan on having any, so it didn't seem applicable.&nbsp; (Please&nbsp;don't hate me--I really do like kids, the parent thing&nbsp;just didn't happen.)But finally I got a hit.&nbsp; It's only a review of the first 7500&nbsp;words, but considering there are whole writing books on this very topic--ex. The&nbsp;First Five Pages by Noah Lukeman which I highly r [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='z-index:10;position:relative;float:left;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="http://www.cjgraves.net/uploads/1/3/9/8/13983922/551125480.jpg" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;"></div></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><br />I thought about naming this--"I'd&nbsp;give my first born child for a blog review!"&nbsp; But of course, I don't have&nbsp;children and don't plan on having any, so it didn't seem applicable.&nbsp; (Please&nbsp;don't hate me--I really do like kids, the parent thing&nbsp;just didn't happen.)<br /><br />But finally I got a hit.&nbsp; It's only a review of the first 7500&nbsp;words, but considering there are whole writing books on this very topic--ex. The&nbsp;First Five Pages by Noah Lukeman which I highly recommend--it's still important&nbsp;and also a clever concept for a blog, I might add. Anyway, it was enough to get me out of the chair, doing a little boogie dance.&nbsp; Go, C.J.--go&nbsp;C.J.!<br /><br />Okay, here's the link:<br /><br /><a title="" href="http://first7500words.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"><u>http://first7500words.blogspot.com/</u></a><br /><br />How do <br /> I rate this?&nbsp; Win by knockout!<br /><br />Thank you Owl.<br /><br /><br /></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Writing and Fighting 101:  Pain is part of the game.]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/writing-and-fighting-101-pain-is-part-of-the-game]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/writing-and-fighting-101-pain-is-part-of-the-game#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2012 13:33:27 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cjgraves.net/blog/writing-and-fighting-101-pain-is-part-of-the-game</guid><description><![CDATA[ Number one reason women tell me they don&rsquo;t want to do mixed martial arts?&nbsp; They&nbsp;don&rsquo;t want to get hit.&nbsp; Well, duh.Unless you&rsquo;re a BDSM sex freak who&nbsp;enjoys fifty shades of red on her ass, who does?&nbsp; Do you think I like some&nbsp;sweaty, tattooed, hulk of a dude taking swipes at my head and then throwing me to the ground and climbing on top of me to take more swipes at my head?&nbsp; That&rsquo;s&nbsp;my job, dammit.&nbsp; (Okay, maybe I like it a littl [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='z-index:10;position:relative;float:left;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="http://www.cjgraves.net/uploads/1/3/9/8/13983922/1350068628.jpg" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;"></div></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;display:block;">Number one reason women tell me they don&rsquo;t want to do mixed martial arts?&nbsp; They&nbsp;don&rsquo;t want to get hit.&nbsp; Well, duh.<br /><br />Unless you&rsquo;re a BDSM sex freak who&nbsp;enjoys fifty shades of red on her ass, who does?&nbsp; Do you think I like some&nbsp;sweaty, tattooed, hulk of a dude taking swipes at my head and then throwing me to the ground and climbing on top of me to take more swipes at my head?&nbsp; That&rsquo;s&nbsp;my job, dammit.&nbsp; (Okay, maybe I like it a little.)&nbsp; But the point is--achieving&nbsp;mastery means paying your dues, and sometimes the dues hurt like&nbsp;hell.<br /><br />The same holds for writing.&nbsp; Why do many people want to write but&nbsp;never do or never finish anything or never submit anything to agents or never&nbsp;publish anything or when they do publish, never push to get reviews...?&nbsp; Well,&nbsp;they don&rsquo;t want to get hit.&nbsp; (Read: Rejected)&nbsp; And if they do put it out there&nbsp;and get rejected, they fold up and go home.&nbsp; Know what I say?&nbsp; Bye.<br /><br />I&rsquo;m&nbsp;not the best fighter in my gym by far.&nbsp; Most of those boys could whip my butt,&nbsp;no problem, and I love them for it.&nbsp; I&rsquo;m not the best writer either (not that I&nbsp;suck, mind you), but I have something a lot of people don&rsquo;t--tenacity.&nbsp; Half of <br /> winning a fight is not gassing out--not giving up.&nbsp; Oh, that and learning to <br /> take a hit. <br /><br />So go ahead.&nbsp; Hit me.<br /><br />Honey Badger<br /></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>